B"H
Final one for today, again it's a short one...full text here
Sources
1) Midrash Tanchuma Mattot, Chapter 7
ומקנה רב. זה שאמר הכתוב, לב חכם לימינו וגו' (קהל' י ב). לב חכם לימינו, זה משה. ולב כסיל לשמאלו, אלו בני ראובן ובני גד, שעשו את העיקר טפל, והטפל עיקר. למה. שחבבו נכסיהם יותר מגופן, שאמרו למשה, גדרות צאן נבנה למקנינו פה, פה תחלה, ואחר כך, וערים לטפנו. אמר להם משה, לא תעשו כך. עשו את העיקר תחלה. בנו ערים לטפכם. ואחר כך גדרות לצאנכם. הוי, לב חכם לימינו, זה משה. ולב כסיל לשמאלו, אלו בני ראובן ובני גד. אמר להם הקדוש ברוך הוא, אתם חבבתם ממונכם יותר מנפשותיכם. חייכם, אין בו ברכה, שנאמר, נחלה מבוהלת בראשונה ואחריתה לא תבורך (משלי כ כא). אל תיגע להעשיר, מבינתך חדל (משלי כג ד). ואיזו עשיר. השמח בחלקו, שנאמר, יגיע כפיך כי תאכל, אשריך וטוב לך (תהלים קכח ב):
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Again, many readers may be aware of the commentaries on Reuven and Gad, the two tribes who approached Moshe in parshat Mattot asking to remain on the east bank of the Yarden (current day Jordan-Syria) rather than take up land in Eretz Yisrael, as the land on the 'east bank' offered better grazing for their sheep and cattle. In doing so, Moshe implicitly rebukes them for appearing to prioritise their cattle - i.e. their material goods - ahead of their children, a rebuke which they appear to accept through their changed use of language. However, as can be seen from this and other midrashim the Rabbis take a pretty dim view of Reuven and Gad's desire for wealth despite their apparent acceptance of Moshe's rebuke, given us further insight into the tension between materialism and spirituality/commitment to life in Eretz Yisrael.
As noted both by this midrash and by commentators such as Rashi, in promising to Moshe that they will commit manpower to conquering Eretz Yisrael and securing it for the rest of B'nei Israel, the tribes of Reuven and Gad make a 'Freudian slip' in noting that they will 'build enclosures for our sheep and...cities for our children' (Bamidbar 32:16) - thereby putting more importance on securing their cattle and sheep than on making sure their children and families will be safe while their men are away at war in Eretz Yisrael. In responding to them, Moshe reverses the order by mentioning the defences for their children before those of their flocks (Bamidbar 32:24) - a message which they appear to take on board by echoing Moshe's word ordering when publicly confirming their intentions (Bamidbar 32:26)
The midrash uses this to exemplify the quote from sefer Kohelet at source 2 above: 'Lev hacham l'yimino, v'lev k'sil l'smolo' (the heart/understanding of the wise man is to his right, [but] the heart/understanding of the fool is to his left). Moshe here is compared to the hacham against the k'sil of the tribes of Reuven and Gad, who made 'haikar tafel v'hatafel ikar' (what was of primary importance secondary, and of secondary importance primary) by elevating the safety of their flocks over that of their children, who are here described as 'gufan' (themselves). The message here is clear - it is children, and not material possessions, which ensure one's survival and continuity, and it is therefore the safety and welfare of one's children which should be prioritised above personal wealth.
Fair enough - this is a message which most of us would see as self-evident (although it is worth noting that the tribes of Reuven and Gad were apparently blinded to this by their own wealth until Moshe pointed it out to them). However, the midrash then goes on to give G-d's perspective, which does not appear to be so forgiving of Reuven and Gad's error of judgment. In the midrash, G-d comments that because Reuven and Gad had prioritised their material wealth over their children (here referred to as 'nafshotechem', their souls), 'ein bo bracha' (there would be no blessing) from their wealth. Citing other texts such as sefer Mishlei and Pirkei Avot, the midrash ultimately concludes with the message that it is better to be satisfied with one's portion rather than seek to gain wealth over all other considerations.
In today's world, there remain those within all sections of the Orthodox community who put material assets and wealth over other considerations, including both their children's spiritual welfare and living in Eretz Yisrael. While there is nothing wrong in seeking a relatively comfortable existence for one and one's family, we should not let this blind us - as Reuven and Gad were apparently blinded - to the true importance of children and family over material wealth. And again, while there is nothing wrong with choosing to make aliyah at a time when one has enough money or earning potential to live in Eretz Yisrael, as a community we should perhaps be more aware that a materially comfortable existence in the Diaspora is not the ideal Jewish life.
Shavua tov
RPT.